How often should you forgive someone for hurting you? At what point should you cut ties?

we can control our response. Holding onto anger only harms you, so forgiveness becomes an act of reclaiming your own peace.

but

Be blessed

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I feel Forgiveness is not about letting someone off the hook it is about releasing yourself from the chains of resentment.

You are not abandoning anyone you’ are simply protecting your own harmony.

⭐ 'The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

The Stoics would say that we cannot control the actions of others,

Your act of abondening is purely self care and forgiving in this case doesn't mean remaining in contact too.

As for cutting ties, I always remind myself that it is wise to assess the situation and act according to reason, not emotion.

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As ,Seneca very rightly told us

Ultimately, as Marcus Aurelius said,

You can forgive and for self care can always cut ties.

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👉🔹If a relationship no longer contributes to your growth or inner tranquility, you are clear that the act on other,s part was not inadvertant instead intentional then it is perfectly rational to step away.

Choose to surround yourself with peace, not pain, and trust that the right relationships will align with your path.